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GOOD BOOKS

GREAT READS

Books Worth Spending Your Time On


A few of the most influential, worthwhile reads to get you on the right track. 

That I recommend to all my clients.



"No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover

By Dr. Robert Glover


Why read: If you've ever ended up in the "Friend-zone," struggle with setting boundaries, have a deep fear of rejection, &/or struggle understanding woman, then read this book.

Key Take-Aways: The reasoning behind approval seeking behaviour, why men lack of confidence to stand up for themselves, and the tools and exercises to rid yourself of the 'Nice Guy Syndrome.'



"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida

By David Deida


Why read: If you even remotely want to understand what's going on inside a woman's head and the dynamics between a male and a female (as you should if you're here), then this book is a must read. 

Key Take-Aways: The essential differences between Masculine vs Feminine energy, why men and women do what we do, and how to create a more passionate and purposeful life. 



"The Daily Stoic" by Ryan Holiday & Stephen Hanselman

By Ryan Holliday & Stephen Hanselman


Why read: If someone were to ask me what my best purchase for under $100 was, I'd easily tell them this book. With 366 days of Stoic insights and exercises, it's a daily “prescription for handling ourselves and our actions in the world." Reading a passage every morning hits the reset button on my day.

Key Take-Aways: Perception - control your perceptions, Action - direct your actions accordingly, and Will - willingly accept what's outside your control - in the present moment (which is key). 



"The War of Art" by Steven Pressfield

By Steven Pressfield


Why read: With nearly 3,000 Amazon reviews, Steven Pressfield talks of the “Resistance.” That is, those things that hold us back - and more importantly, being able to recognize them within us. While it’s a book about writers block, it pertains to every area of our lives.

Key Take-Aways: Recognizing what keeps us from doing what we long to do, beating procrastination, and great pieces of practical insight to help get you unstuck.



"Rejection Proof" by Jia Jiang

By Jia Jiang


Why read: While we all hate, despise and fear rejection (for reasons we may or may not even know), is it really all that bad? What if you actually put yourself out there? What would happen? Jia Jiang takes us down this road and shows us that "rejection" really isn't all that bad. Well worth the quick read.

Key Take-Aways: Realizing that rejection really isn't all that bad, how to overcome fear and live more boldly, you just might get what you ask for, and how to turn a no into something positive.



Emotional Intelligence 2.0 By Travis Bradberry

By Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves


Why read: Most guys are one's and zero's personality types. That is, they're quite logical and lack the understanding on how to connect with people on a deeper level. For any guy that suffers with social anxiety, difficult relationships, or letting their emotions rule, this book (or any on this subject) is a must. And the cool thing... these are all skills that can be learned.

Key Take-Aways: A step-by-step program for increasing your EQ (Emotional Intelligence) through acquiring the skills of self-awareness, self-management (managing your emotions), social awareness (awareness of others), and relationship management.



"Ego is the Enemy" by Ryan Holiday

By Ryan Holiday


Why read: Arguably, one of the biggest things that holds us back from getting what we want and keeping us from being happy is our ego. This book will not only help you recognize this (often) silent killer, but ​bring you down to earth when your anxiety, emotions, fears, etc. run high. 

Key Take-Aways: How ego really is the enemy to success, self awareness of what's holding you back, and a prescription in humility. 



"Pitch Anything" by Oren Klaff

By Oren Klaff


Why read: Easily the book I recommend most to people... that they don't read. Don't let the title scare you. It's more of a book on social dynamics than it is a book on effective presentations. Learn how to control any social interaction and a framework on how to show up as a leader. 

Key Take-Aways: Needy-ness and how to avoid it, positioning, frame control, and how to show up (i.e. present yourself) from a power position. 



"Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden

By Dr. Nathaniel Branden


Why read: Simple rule - If you want to change your external reality, change your inner reality first. Nathaniel Branden, considered one of the godfather's of self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence, will bring to surface the things you do that raise or lower your self-esteem.  

Key Take-Aways: The Six Pillars say it best - 1) Live Consciously 2) Accept Yourself  3) Take Responsibility for Your Experiences  4) Assert Who You Are  5) Live Purposefully  6) Maintain Your Integrity



"Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment" by Amir Levine &‎ Rachel S. F. Heller

By Amir Levine &‎ Rachel S. F. Heller


Why read: The science to love? Understanding your attachment type & identifying the attachment type of others will help you to pinpoint the type of person best suited for you - and how to navigate your relationships more wisely.  

Key Take-Aways: From the book summary on Amazon - "According to attachment theory, every person behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: "anxious" people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back. "Avoidant" people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness. "Secure" people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving."


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